Meditation:
Training the Mind and Cultivating Loving-Kindness
Chogyam Trungpa
Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism
Chogyam Trungpa and Sakyong Mipham
Meditation and Kabbalah
Aryeh Kaplan
Sex:
Why Women Have Sex: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between)
Cindy M. Meston and David M. Buss
How to Have an Orgasm…As Often As You Want: Life-Changing Sexual Secrets for Women and their Partners
Rachel Swift
Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men: What Every Man Wants to Know About Making Love to a Woman and Never Asks
Jamie Goddard and Kurt Brungart
Consensual Sadomasochism: How to Talk About and How To Do It Safely William A. Henkin and Sybil Holiday
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
Jay Wiseman
Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice
Mark Thompson
The Loving Dominant
John and Libby Warren
For Women Only: A Revolutionary Guide to Reclaiming Your Sex Life Doctors Jennifer and Laura Berman
Aphrodite’s Daughters : Women’s Sexual Stories and the Journey of the Soul
Jalaja Bonheim
For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality
Lonnie Barbach
The Clitourist: A Guide to One of the Hottest Spots on Earth
Karen Salmansohn
Woman: An Intimate Geography
Natalie Angier
Healing Sexual Trauma
Sexual Healing: Transforming the Sacred Wound
Healing Trauma: A Pioneering Program for Restoring the Wisdom of Your Body
Waking the Tiger: The Innate Capacity to Transform Overwhelming Experiences
all by Peter Levine
The Body Remembers: The Psychophysiology of Trauma and Trauma Treatment
Babette Rothschild
Dating:
If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path
Charlotte Kasl
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures
Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
Tristan Taormino.
Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Passion Alive in Intimate Relationships
David Schnarch, PhD.
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
Melody Beattie
Body:
The Web That Has No Weaver : Understanding Chinese Medicine
Ted Kaptchuk
The Brain Chemistry Diet : The Personalized Prescription for Balancing Mood, Relieving Stress, and Conquering Depression, Based on Your Personality Profile
Michael Lesser and Colleen J. Kapklein
Ayurveda and Marma Therapy: Energy Points in Yogic Healing
David Frawley, Subhash Ranade, and Avinash Lele
The Beauty Myth: How Images of Beauty Are Used Against Women
Promiscuities: The Secret Struggle for Womanhood
Naomi Wolf
The Body Project: An Intimate History of American Girls
Joan Jacobs Brumberg
Spirit:
Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the Flames
Thich Nhat Hahn
I And Thou
The Ten Rungs & The Way Of Man
Martin Buber
The Artist’s Way
Julie Cameron
To Begin Again: The Journey Toward Comfort, Strength, and Faith in Difficult Times
Naomi Levy
The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying
Sogyal Rinpoche, Patrick D. Gaffney, and Andrew Harvey
Your 29-Year-Old Yenta 
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